Regulating the Nervous System: The Key to Inner Balance
Have you ever felt “stuck” in stress, anxiety, or overwhelm—like your body just can’t relax, even when your mind wants to? That’s your nervous system talking.
The nervous system is the body’s command center. It controls everything from your heartbeat and digestion to your fight-or-flight response. It’s constantly scanning for safety or danger and responds accordingly—speeding things up when there’s a threat, or calming things down when you feel safe.
So what does it mean to regulate it?
Regulating the nervous system means helping it shift smoothly between states of alertness and relaxation, rather than getting “stuck” in high stress (fight/flight) or shutdown (freeze). When your system is well-regulated, you’re better able to respond to life with clarity, groundedness, and resilience.
Why is this important?
Because chronic dysregulation—being in a constant state of tension or numbness—can lead to emotional fatigue, poor sleep, digestive issues, and even chronic pain. On the other hand, a well-regulated nervous system improves mood, supports immune health, enhances emotional balance, and fosters a deep sense of safety in the body.
How bodywork helps:
In my sessions, I focus on body-based techniques specifically designed to support nervous system regulation. Through intentional touch, breath awareness, and gentle somatic guidance, we create conditions that help your body feel safe, supported, and more connected to the present moment. This allows the nervous system to soften out of survival states and into rest, repair, and integration.
The result?
Clients often report feeling calmer, more centered, and “back in their body” after a session, because true healing happens not just in the mind, but through the body’s ability to self-regulate.
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Sources / References
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Porges, Stephen W.
The Polyvagal Theory: Neurophysiological Foundations of Emotions, Attachment, Communication, and Self-regulation
— Introduces the idea of how the vagus nerve and nervous system impact emotional regulation and safety.
Dana, Deb
The Polyvagal Theory in Therapy
— Explains practical ways nervous system states affect mental health and how to support regulation through body-based practices.
Levine, Peter A.
Waking the Tiger: Healing Trauma
— Discusses somatic experiencing and how trauma can dysregulate the nervous system, as well as how body awareness can restore balance.
Van der Kolk, Bessel
The Body Keeps the Score
— Details how trauma affects the body and nervous system, and how healing happens through embodied practices.
National Institute of Mental Health (NIMH)
— Offers foundational knowledge on how the nervous system works in relation to stress and mental health.